
“The temperate man desires what he ought, as reason prescribes.”
— Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, Book III, Chapter 11
(Translated by W.D. Ross)
ig Idea
Self-control is your brain’s GPS :
Wild Mode = Eat entire pizza because it’s there → Stomachache.
Smart Mode = Have 2 slices + salad → Energy for family time.
Real-Life Scenarios
Grocery Temptations
→ Undisciplined: Buy 10 candy bars on sale → Sugar crash.
→ Temperate: Choose dark chocolate + almonds → Steady focus.
Holiday Shopping
→ Undisciplined: Max credit cards for Instagrammable gifts → January debt.
→ Temperate: Make handmade cards + 1 meaningful gift → Happy memories.
Stress Relief
→ Undisciplined: Drink whole wine bottle after work → Hangover + regrets.
→ Temperate: Pour 1 glass + call a friend → Real connection.
What You Can Do
- The “Should I?” Checklist
Before wanting something, ask:- Will this help me ______? (Fill with: play with kids/work better/etc.)
- What would I advise my best friend?
- Desire Swap
Replace 1 craving with 1 rational alternative:
→ Late-night chips → Herbal tea + crossword.
→ Impulse Amazon buy → Library book reserve. - Temperance Tracker
Use phone notes to log weekly wins:
Week 1: Resisted 3rd coffee → Avoided anxiety
Week 2: Skipped revenge shopping → Saved $200