
โThe beginning of vice lies in ourselves; like a stoneโs throw, the act is voluntary.โโ
โ Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, Book III, Chapter 5
(Translated by W.D. Ross)
Big Idea
Bad habits start like skipping stones ๐:
- First Toss = Tell “harmless” lie โ Ripples of distrust spread.
- Skip 10x = Lie becomes routine โ Relationships sink like stones.
โReal-Life Scenarios
๐ข Office Supplies
โ Voluntary Start: Take pens home โ Next year embezzles funds.
โ Accountable Choice: Label communal items โ Builds trust capital.
๐ซ Group Project
โ First Cheat: Copy homework โ Ends up buying term papers.
โ Ethical Start: Ask for help โ Develops real skills.
๐ฑ Social Media
โ First Troll: Post mean meme โ Becomes cyberbully.
โ Mindful Post: Share uplifting story โ Gains positive followers.
โWhat You Can Do
- โThe “Splash Test”
Before acting, ask:- “Will this choice create โripples I want in my life pond?”
- โStone Tracker
For 5 days, note:
Day 1: Gossiped about coworker (threw stone) ๐ข
Day 3: Complimented stranger (skipped joy) ๐ - โAccountability Buddy
Weekly text exchange:
โ “My best ‘stone’ this week was ______”
โ “My most regrettable ‘throw’ was ______”