“Choice is not appetite, anger, wish, or opinion, but deliberate preference.”
— Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, Book III, Chapter 2
(Translated by W.D. Ross)
The Big Idea
Real choices aren’t quick reactions – they’re strategic picks after thinking it through. Think of it like gaming:
- 🎮 Deliberate Choice = Pausing to equip the best armor → Survive the boss fight.
- 🔥 Impulse = Smashing buttons wildly → Game Over.
Real-Life Scenarios
🔥 Homework vs. TikTok
- Appetite = Binge-watching videos → Failing math.
- Deliberate Choice = Finish algebra first → Unlock guilt-free scrolling.
🤝 Lunchroom Drama
- Anger = Yelling at a friend who took your seat → Friendship damaged.
- Deliberate Choice = Take a breath → Ask calmly → Respect earned.
📱 Social Media Crossroads
- Wish = Posting a lie to get likes → Fake fame.
- Deliberate Choice = Share something true → Build real trust.
Try This Week
- The “5-Second Rule”
When tempted to react fast: Count “5…4…3…2…1” → Ask: “Is this impulse or choice?” - Choice Journal
Track 3 moments you paused before deciding:- Example: “Wanted to cheat on a quiz → Chose to study instead ✅”
- Peer Challenge
Text a friend: “What’s 1 thing you deliberately chose today?” Swap screenshots of smart picks!