
โThe temperate man desires what he ought, as reason prescribes.โโ
โ Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics, Book III, Chapter 11
(Translated by W.D. Ross)
ig Idea
Self-control is your brainโs GPS ๐งญ:
- ๐ท Wild Mode = Eat entire pizza because it’s there โ Stomachache.
- ๐ง Smart Mode = Have 2 slices + salad โ Energy for family time.
โReal-Life Scenarios
๐ Grocery Temptations
โ Undisciplined: Buy 10 candy bars on sale โ Sugar crash.
โ Temperate: Choose dark chocolate + almonds โ Steady focus.
๐ธ Holiday Shopping
โ Undisciplined: Max credit cards for Instagrammable gifts โ January debt.
โ Temperate: Make handmade cards + 1 meaningful gift โ Happy memories.
๐ท Stress Relief
โ Undisciplined: Drink whole wine bottle after work โ Hangover + regrets.
โ Temperate: Pour 1 glass + call a friend โ Real connection.
โWhat You Can Do
- โThe “Should I?” Checklist
Before wanting something, ask:- Will this help me ______? (Fill with: play with kids/work better/etc.)
- What would I advise my best friend?
- โDesire Swap
Replace 1 craving with 1 rational alternative:
โ Late-night chips โ Herbal tea + crossword.
โ Impulse Amazon buy โ Library book reserve. - โTemperance Tracker
Use phone notes to log weekly wins:
Week 1: Resisted 3rd coffee โ Avoided anxiety โ
Week 2: Skipped revenge shopping โ Saved $200 โ